If it's your goal to go from casual dating to having a real commitment with a certain guy, then you might feel that you have a gargantuan task ahead of you. It may be difficult to get into a serious relationship right away but it's far from impossible. Here are ways to turn your guy into the type that commits:
Begin by knowing what he wants.
He may have made it clear from the very beginning that he just wants a no-strings-attached kind of relationship and you hadn't listened. Make sure that you're on the same boat by asking him what he wants.
Know what you want, too.
Are you really ready for a more serious type of relationship or are you just pressured by some external factors such as peer pressure? If you're done with casual dating and would want something longer lasting, then it's time to emotionally prepare for it's going to be a long ride ahead.
Be subtle with your transition techniques.
So you've decided that he's the boyfriend that you'd want to keep? Then it's time to gently coax him into a relationship. Let him see the joys of having someone by your side at all times. Point out how your best friend and her boyfriend have been dating exclusively for years now and their relationship seems to be getting stronger.
Show him a dose of loyalty.
Most casual daters would still go out with different guys. If you're now geared to being his only one, then you must show that you're capable of being a one-man-woman.
Don't ever paint him into a corner.
Most women make the mistake of dictating what they want when they should be gently persuading men. Don't make the sudden announcement that you're now his one and only girlfriend. Make him stay by showing him your good points.
Show him that you're not that available.
Most guys don't offer commitment when they know that the woman they're currently dating is okay with the present set up. When you start making yourself scarce, he is bound to take notice and he will eventually give you what you want. So instead of waiting for him all the time, pull back and see what he's going to do next.
Find joy in your life.
Remember that switching from casual dating to a serious commitment is an equally serious responsibility. Allow him to see that you will be a source of happiness and fun when you two are already together. Once he sees that life will be light and joyful with you, then he won't hesitate to offer a long-time commitment.
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